Your Ceremony

This is a base ceremony structure that I encourage all couples to build their own elements around.

There are some legal bits that we have to include, and some traditional elements that we can tailor to suit you.

Before the Ceremony

About 5 minutes prior to the procession, I will come to make sure those processing are ready to go! We can take our time here. I then return to your ceremony location to brief your guests on etiquette and give any special instructions.

Most couples prefer mobile phones to be silenced and holstered for the ceremony, there are flower petals to throw or bubbles to blow. Anything you want me to mention, now is the time.

Bridal Procession

I then play your music or give a signal to your musicians to begin.

Getting started

Once assembled…“We are gathered here today…” are the traditional words to get things underway. I tell the guests why we are all here - as if they don’t know! There are a few legal things I need to say at the start, they are:

- Statement that I am an authorised Celebrant - ie. this is legit!

- A reminder that what you are about to do is legally binding

- Inform all present what marriage is in Australia

Words About the Couple

This is my favourite part of the ceremony, where I spend some time talking about the two stars of the show - you!

I love getting to know all my couples and finding out about those little things that make you unique and such a perfect fit for marriage.

I use my experience to take you and your guests on a ride through your story. There will be laughs and tears that arise organically without over-the-top embellishment or enhancement.

Readings

Readings are a fantastic way to break up the ceremony. By this point I will have been speaking for around 10 mins and it is nice for a change of voice!

There are so many nice readings, both secular and religious that can add metaphorical or direct meaning to your Big Day. But don’t be limited. Song lyrics, poetry or even a musical interlude can be nice at this point.

Vows

Then it’s over to you! Your vows are your time to shine - a time to tell your partner how they have made you a better person and make a few promises for the future. Click here for a guide on how to write your perfect vows. I also love to get involved in the creative process, if you need a hand.

I Dos

One of the classic elements of any ceremony - this is when things take a more formal tone. There are traditional words, or more modern forms that can be taken when I ask you both if you take the other to be your lawful wedded spouse. I also like to ask your family and friends if they promise to support you as you continue your lives together.

Rings

The exchange of rings is another highly-visual element that will have your guests craning their necks to get a good view. Couples say this is one of the more memorable moments in the ceremony.

Kiss

It’s the moment we’ve all been waiting for, after bringing all the elements together with a few words, it is my pleasure to finally pronounce you as partners - sealed with a kiss!